Pissplay of a different sort …

…. the prostate gland …. Why the anatomy lesson, you ask …. Fifteen years ago this fall, just one month shy of his 54th birthday, Frank was diagnosed with prostate cancer. Four months later he had a radical prostatectomy. We were, at the time, fortunate enough to be living in an area that had one of the top prostate cancer research centres in the world. Frank was able to access the skill and care of one of the centre’s top surgeons. The early discovery and the low staging of his tumour, meant he was able to come out of the surgery with nerves intact … all of this was life changing but not as life changing as it could have been if it had gone undetected. At his post surgery checkup, the surgeon gave him the advice … ‘use it or lose it’ … advice Frank has taken to heart ever since 😉 Fifteen years hence, and we are still fortunate to have a healthy sex life … it is something we work at keeping and do not take for granted … So some finer details about our prostateless sex life … We were having a lighthearted subbie conversation at a SafeWord Club ‘munch’ a couple of months back … drool on a pillow became ‘cum’ on a pillow became … well you know … cum everywhere. I responded with “not something I ever have to worry about” … and the conversation went on. Later, our facilitator, Missy, cycled back to my comment … my explanation … no prostate = no ejaculate. With the ensuing conversation, I realized there might not be common knowledge as to the function and importance of the little walnut sized male gland, tucked between the bladder and penis. Yes, it is capable of giving it’s owner amazing little jolts if rubbed the right way with an anally inserted digit or toy. Yes, it is main focus of the pain in the ass male medical checkup that should happen yearly for any man over 40 (strong hint). However, it’s primary function is to produce the fluid that protects and nourishes the sperm. During ejaculation, the prostate squeezes the fluid into the penile urethra and that, my friends, is ‘cum’ … so no prostate, no cum. Also, one could also extend that thought to, given no cum, there is no dilemma as to swallow or not swallow … well, in theory yes. However, we discovered early in our post prostatectomy journey, occasionally something does comes out – and it’s something with a vile, nasty, taste …and although colour was clear and odor was nil, we suspected it was urine … so yeah no, for this reason Frank never lets me finish him with my mouth … Regarding the mechanics of it all, Frank is able to get a hard-on although quite often it doesn’t last all that long and it definitely doesn’t get as hard or as large as it did in his previous life. However, apart from hard-on quality, what he misses most is the sensation that comes with ejaculation. Last year, post me getting out of the bath, being naked and all … and Frank, as always, being turned on at me being naked and all, had me sit on our little bathroom stool to suck and stroke his cock … and for whatever reason the stroking was especially effective … so much so that he started spurting … piss, of course … but instead of stopping, this time I kept stroking and out came a stronger and stronger spurts … and really, who cared … I was naked, the floor is tiled, we own a mop … and he appeared to be having an amazing orgasm … so I kept going and we just let it happen (by this time I don’t think he had the capability to stop 😁). It was a wow! moment for both of us – to realize, with urine spurting, he’d been able to experience an ejaculatory sensation again. When we were done and cleaned up, he was a bit mortified at the end result, however, I assured him I was not bothered in the least … I was happy for him that he again was able to again experience the full ‘cumming’ feeling …. So for us … we now have the occasional ‘pissplay’ … our version of pissplay … no humiliation aspect whatsoever … just an amazing ‘cum’ orgasm for my Sir … … we’ve moved beyond any awkwardness a little pee might cause … however to see what others might have to say about ‘awkward’ situations follow the link or badge to this week’s Wicked Wednesday …